Donna Rose Gardner, Celebration of Life Officiant in Santa Cruz and Monterey

A Compassionate Presence

I bring my heart into every ceremony with compassion, presence, and deep care. My role is to honor not only the life of the one who has passed, but also the love and connection carried forward by those who remain.

When I’m with loved ones, I offer a gentle, accepting, and non-judgmental space. Grief is tender and complex, and it belongs to each person in their own way. I believe a ceremony can be both a place for tears and for laughter—a circle where sorrow and joy stand together, hand in hand.

My hope is that every life I help celebrate is remembered not only with reverence, but with love, stories, and even moments of lightness. A celebration of life service is a chance to honor the fullness of a person's journey — giving those who are grieving the time and space to share their grief, their love, their joy, and their happiest memories.

I believe every life and every love deserves to be honored just as it is. All paths are welcome — LGBTQIA+, multicultural, non-religious, and spiritual. As an inclusive officiant, I hold everyone with openness and compassion. Each personalized celebration of life I create reflects the many ways love and spirit shine in our world.

Connect With Me

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I’d be honored to talk with you about your loved one and how you want their life honored. Please fill out this form, or call me at (831) 325-7254.